Almost Ladies

April 7, 2010

Have I?

Filed under: personal, rants & raves — Tags: — almostladies @ 4:15 am

Changed I mean.

I mean, I don’t see much changes in me.
Well, I am much more me now.
Still nice, but much more of a bitch in a nice way ofc!

After 4 years,  I still have the same friends.
I cant possibly have changed much?
Well, my girls have grown 😀
This better not jinx it!

Been meeting people, mingling and running around the place trying to get rid of excess energy.
And stuffing my face with food! 😀

But I am here to fulfill my side of the deal.

10 things to fulfill before I die

1. Go to Italy/Europe/travel the world with heaps of spending money.
2.  Actually do some charity work/help the needy for a few years.
3. Learn about God again.
4. Own a nice house/apartment with a killer view and large deck/balcony.
5.  Have someone to grow old with (because marriage scares the hell out of me!)
6. Do something I love as a career.
7.  Be able to look back on life at any point and not have any regrets.
8. To be able to always go with my impulses.
9. Be happy and contented even if life is not pleasant.
10. Dance as much as I can, eat as much as possible, love like tomorrow’s the end and not bother with people who doesn’t matter.


December 18, 2009

Of the past few months..

Filed under: personal — Tags: — almostladies @ 2:22 pm

So, this has been dead for a long long time. And I decide to update!

I’ve only just recently (well, more like one month) break free from the clutches of the evils while the best friend has been busy with the thing every adult does.

Work is so not fun. I just realized. No more Adidas or crazy colored leggings. All are just mundane uninteresting clothes. My new bright pink tie dye leggings has been attracting more attention than I thought it would. Its so much fun! I don’t think working is for me. Either that or I need to get a job that allows me flexibility with my clothes! Oh bother!

Coming to the end of the year, this shall be a post on the year, yes?

Ten things that happened in 2009.

1.Broke up for the first time ever.
I will never ever stop caring. But there comes a time when I’ve got to let go to love me once again.

2. Boys.
Made out, dates, had fun. Moved on.

3. Grown in terms of design/social thinking.
I’ve learnt so much this last half of the year in terms of thinking. Its quite amazing.

4. Made new friends.
And realized that there are people out there who can really take me for me. The slutty, bitchy and full on me. I don’t have to constantly be behind a front.

5. Saw that one person that I’ve been wanting to see.
7 years was all it took. And what great nights it was. Would not mind reliving the whole three weeks again.

6. Realized how loved I am.
By the extended family. Never knew but its never too late to know.

7. Grew immensely fashion wise.
A lil peek-a-boo skin here and there, colored leggings, layers and stuff that normal people will deem weird.

8. Grew apart from a friend.
Sad but yes. It happened. Just on totally different pages in life I guess? Been thru heaps of shite but what’s done is done.

9. Fell back in love with life.
And dance. Whenever something is bothering me or I need to be distracted, I turn up my music and dance. I’m not the best at it but it keeps me sane and calms me down.

10. One year older, one year wiser.
That has never been so true.

August 18, 2009

10 Weird Things about Me

Filed under: personal — Tags: — almostladies @ 4:34 am

1. I tend to dance in my chair when I am tired of doing work/falling asleep.

2. I dance/bop to music with headphones on when I think that no one is looking.

3.I really want to dress up in tight corset, garter belts and the works for a night out!

4. I love the smell of new things/tags still on clothes.

5. One of the main reasons why I want a bf is so that I get to steal his clothes 😀

6. I love eating ice-cream during cold winter nights.

7. Doing my makeup makes me immensly happy.

8. I had dragonfruit for the first time about 1 month ago.

9. I think best in the shower.

10. I don’t like soup.

August 5, 2009

Dear Best Friend;

Filed under: birthday, personal — Tags: — almostladies @ 12:49 pm

Happy birthday my dear. I’m sorry there is no awesome image like last year (cause I am lazy like that =.=). It sucks that you’re 1 million miles away! But trust that you are going to have a great day there!

Thank You for being the bestest best friend one can ask for.
Thank You for being there thru all the high and low’s.
Thank You for being brutally honest when I need it most.
Thank You for all the impulsive shopping trips.
Thank You for all the support.
Thank You for all the bitch sesh when I needed it.

Thank You for being you!!

I wish that you were here and I miss you so very much!

Hence, here is a toast;


Eh no. Wrong (Wah I am so lame!)


Here’s to you!

Here’s to another great year!
Here’s to all your wants coming true!
Here’s to all your dreams that much closer!
Here’s to the awesome person that you are!
Here’s to you who has tolerated me for years!
Here to you; for being the person that you are!

Ultimately; here’s to the person that can never be replaced.  🙂

Oh, we’ve got a long, long way to go
To get there
We’ll get there
But oh, if there’s one thing that we know
It’s that we will not grow old

Lenka – We Will not Grow Old

I love you.


July 24, 2009

The kinds that should just go poof!

Filed under: personal, rants & raves — Tags: — almostladies @ 1:53 pm

I’m back! Bigger and better (literally =.=). It took me a considerable amount of time to fulfill my part of the deal but the time has finally come for me to!

The kinds of humans that I would rather not interact with.

Look, we are not being mean here; we just have out preferences. We are still very nice people; if you are nice that is!

And without further ado; here’s my list!

1. People with no substance – Hey. I’m cool with you having so substance, just don’t butt into conversations that you have no idea about. Just don’t. I’m saving you from any embarrassment on your part and time wasting on mine. Go gain a lil substance before you play with the grown ups, yea? 🙂

2. Brand Whore’s – All good if you can afford it! I’ll even look on with much envy! But what I cannot take are people who are obviously big big brand whores but says that they are not (cause they cant afford it etc). I know my brands; I know what I like and what I don’t like. I can tell fakes from real; some anyway. Condemn me for having all these knowledge but not being able to afford any but I’ll wear my $20 bag proudly and it might just look better than your 2k one (Let’s not kid ourselves; some out there ought to be burned!)

3. Stupid people (!!!!) – Oh my this is a huge one for me. I’m not talking about being book smart. I have had my stupid moments; quite a lot actually! But what I’m talking about is those people who are just so stupid! People who does things for the benefit of now; people who are ignorant to the obvious; people who plays with sparks, creates a fire and whines about it. I expect people who are around me (give or take 4 years) to at least have some common sense but it has been proven (again and again) that stupid people are abundant.

4. Fake people – I admit, I can be super fake sometimes. I have heaps of alter ego’s that needs to be unleashed! But that is not what I am talking about. I am talking about people who are trying to fake what they are not. Those who are trying to be someone else but is failing miserably. You cant make a leopard change its spots! If you don’t have it in you to fake it; don’t. It painful to watch.

5. Arrogant people – This includes people who thinks that they rule the world, older generations who demands respect (and for that you get none for me), people who goes around flaunting what they have and people who are up themselves. URGH go away!

6. Selfish people – Enough said!

7. Backstabbers – If you have any sort of problem with me, grow some balls and confront me. Don’t go around spreading stuff about me which has no basis whatsoever. That’s dirty child’s play and honestly, I expected you to grow out of it already.

8. Guys who are being pussy-whipped – Oh c’mon!

9. Weak people -Mentally. So what if you’ve been rejected? Grow some balls, you’re not a kid anymore! Don’t effing whine about it!

10. Unreasonable people – YUCK YUCK YUCK.

11. Players – I’m talking about those who are in a relationship already but still check girls out, obviously. Looking is fine talking about how she has a nice arse is fine too but dont oogle. And dont hit on chicks as well! Dont be dirty. You’re in a relationship; if you think she is not good enough, move on properly. Karma’s a bitch. This applies to girls too.

And this is the end of my long list; granted not all are listed but this is enough! 😀

April 28, 2009

Top 6 Regrets

Filed under: rants & raves — Tags: — almostladies @ 12:24 pm

…in my not so short life! I took so long to finish this because I really had a hard time coming up with 6. I like what/who/how I am right now and there is nothing I would change (not counting the ever existing tummy of course!).

1. Not buying that super cheap LBD (Little Black Dress) which was of perfect length and fits me like a glove and made my legs look miles long! Not to mention the price was more than perfect!

2. Shutting the whole world out when the only thing that can help me was/is the world (I am still working on this!)

3. Trusting a MAC makeup artist too much which resulted in a totally wrong shade for my skin!

4.Going on major diet(s) during puberty which resulted in not so big tata’s 😦

5. Trusting people too easily

6. Thinking in too many languages at once which results in communication malfunction at the most important times 😦 This I cannot control 😦

I’m finally done! That took long enough! 😀

February 14, 2009

Mr. Customized

Filed under: personal — Tags: — almostladies @ 12:28 pm

If you have to know (I know all the one reader we have is dying to know) relationships is not my platter of seafood (read favorite food post). They tend to go sour on me after a few months (if you are lucky!). There’s too many mini-me’s inside me screaming to be heard in regards to this post. Them and Beyonce too (Little did he know; My man gonna take it off tonight!). Can you tell i am just trying to make this longer so that it may or may not distract you from the whole main point of the post (Epic FAIL!). Part 2 below may or may not cause you to throw up your dinner tonight and swat me like an annoying fly because I am a silent romantic at heart.

I want a guy who would kiss me in front of his friends;
hold my hand in front of his parents &
goes ‘She’s the one’ when I am all the way on the other side of the room to his friends.

I want a guy who would dance with me under the stars;
One who would kiss me in the rain (washed away makeup and all)
One who would kiss me on the lips when I look at him with doubt.

He has to be able to carry me without any obvious strain (This is a feat!)
Which means that he has to be buffed and dark.
He should wear polo tops on an occasional basis
and clean up good 🙂

He should be able to dance and keep up with me!
And not get too drunk cause its just not my thing.

Trust me.
Talk to me.
Make me laugh.
Wipes away my tears.
Makes me happy.
‘Just because..’
Love me.

PDA should be second nature.
Oh and eyes that I can see, please.
He should be able to take me up on my spontaneity and not be a wet blanket.
As well as tolerate my tantrums, bitchy moods and all those that makes me a girl.

Patience, reliability, trustworthy, calm, honest.
I would like a guy who would go shopping with me and not grumble;
as well as a guy who would sweep me off my feet.

He has to have a good sense of direction;
and understands the importance of words and actions.
Someone who would love my lumps and bumps as much as I hate them.
Someone who I can cuddle up to and feel comfy not doing anything with.

Above all;
He has to make my heart beat faster.
Make a good day great.
Impress me just with his presence.
He has to be able to take me to places I’ve never been to and teach me stuff.
Act like he is upset just so that I’ll kiss him.
Understand that I don’t need material stuff;
But just someone who will satisfy me emotionally.

I dont want ‘the perfect guy’ to every other girl.
I just want my perfect guy who is no where near perfect.
And loves me because I am not either.

I know that I am not asking for the moon and that ‘he’ exists.

And now.. back to my game.

October 24, 2008


Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: — almostladies @ 11:13 am

I’m in love with silent rains. You know the kind when it rains during the peaceful part of the day? Rains like this is super romantic I reckon. Can you imagine being on a date, being under an umbrella and not talking; just dwelling in the fact that the both of you are in the rain, under the same umbrella, standing so close to each other that you can feel the other’s warmth? Or maybe in a car when the world is some how ‘melting’ all around you but that doesn’t matter cause you are safe and warm, with your date. Or maybe just being in bed with your significant other, cuddling and listening to the rain and each other’s breath. Doesn’t that make you all warm and fuzzy inside? (: Or maybe its just me.

Pastel Droplets V - Katosu at

Pastel Droplets V - Katosu at

Little Miss Perfect has been busy living her life lately. She’s been to parties and moving house and uh, a lot of studying! Yay to being a student!

And I have been busy announcing to the world that I am broke and if there’s a vacancy at a brothel… Oh and I’ve been busy writing a list of things to buy (Oh how quaint) for my room. I’ve been reading looking at a lot of jap mags too! Pretty picture’s! I’m contemplating changing styles. I’m getting tired of my laid back casual sucky dressing. I’m too young to dress this way! Its time for me to funk it up a lil bit and spice it up (Oh doesn’t that just sound kinky?). On to more colors and quirky combo’s! I’m currently loving colored and patterned tights! And nice sun dresses! Oh yes, and one piece bathing suits. You know the kind where its real low in front or has the sides cut away? Despite the funny tan line that one’ll get, its super hot! Hmm. Maybe this calls for a proper post. Oh! And I cant paint my nails to save my life. It never comes out perfect! ARGH!

Okay! I’ll be zooming off now, to live my young life.

At home. Playing online games or painting my nails (again) =.=


p/s: I thought I was weird until Miss Perfect came online ‘YAY. I’m studying’ she said.

September 29, 2008

Favourite Food

Filed under: Food — Tags: — almostladies @ 2:59 pm

I love eating. And I love good food. I grew up eating the best food in town, waking up at unearthly hours, waiting in the sweltering heat just to satisfy my tummy is almost a norm. To me, having good food is essential. Whenever I have a bad meal, I am highly unhappy! And thus sulk and go off to have the best dessert I can find just to make up for it.

1. Seafood

I love seafood. Baked, fried, grilled, raw I’d eat ’em all! I have a weakness for seafood. It has to, of course, be fresh and done properly. Doesn’t the platter above just makes you want some? I don’t think that I have a favorite kind of seafood. Its too hard to choose!

2. Food where Nasi Lemak, Rendang, Satay, Lemang, Bubur Chacha, Laksa, Kueh Chap originated from!

Or more generally, Southeast Asian food! I’d love to add pictures under this category but there are just too much! If I did, there wont be an end to this post. Oh my. Just thinking about it is making me hungry. All these food are really disease inducing but really, its too good to not have! I may end up being old and full of disease but its all good. OH YES! Pork spare parts. I absolutely love pork spare parts. There are meals that just has to have pork spare parts. I can proudly declare that I’ve had the best malay and pork spare parts ever. EVER. Oh gawd. And to think that sometime soon, I wont be able to taste them anymore T.T People who cooks these should be awarded a medal or something. Oh, dont get me started on the desserts and kuih’s..

3. Meat


I love my meat. And I enjoy my hearty pieces of meat. Do away with the so called ‘artsy presentation’ with tiny pieces of meat, a whole lot of potatoes and vege’s with some sauce drizzled on the side and give me a big piece please! I’m paying $20 to be filled and not to admire your so called ‘perfect presentation’ and pretend its perfect. Why make it look so ‘good’ when its all going to come out one way? Psh. I like mine big and well done please! Ha!

4. Tropical Fruits

mMm! I love fruits too! Can you name all of them? One thing I love about tropical fruits is how you can add salt/sugar to some of them to enhance the flavor of the fruit. The above is my favvy fruits. Its been years and years since I had them. I remember how after dinner meal there will be a platter of fruits on the table for consumption. Because these fruits are considered ‘heaty’, I usually fall sick after being a glutton and having way too much. Oh and durians, I only eat the sweet ones.

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p/s: This is the longest post ever! It took me 4 hours to finish because I keep getting distracted! And I also think that this is a real bad topic. Its torture to be able to see pictures and not taste them. Oh boo!

September 7, 2008

My Ideal Vacation

Filed under: holiday — Tags: — almostladies @ 10:40 am

I love the sun. I love the sea. And I love being pampered.

To wake up to the sound of the sea lapping by the shore. Sliding the wide french doors to welcome the fresh salty air into the room. Ah! I can just feel it right now. Of course, no island escape will be complete without some bubbly and an odd companion! Oh and maybe the few odd hot guys (with nice bods!) too; to stare at while passing time at the beach. I’d have seafood and fruits for every meal and wear nice bikini’s/one piece’s under lose long tops/dresses everyday paired with a nice beach tote and pretty sandals. I’d play happy songs all day long and bounce around all day from the beach to the chalet! Sigh. Doesn’t that sound just awesome?

I also happen to love arts and architecture. I can see myself walking around the The Louvre, being silenced by the magnificent art all around, somehow afraid that the slightest sound I make will cause them all to disappear. Do you know how that feels like?

The colors! The straight edges and curves which balanced it out!
How can one not fall in love with that?

Yes, I would love to visit cities with are so rich with the arts and architecture and dwell upon the greatness of it all. Florence, Venice, Milan, Bath, Paris, Italy, Barcelona. To visit the places where these magnificent works of art are situated at and be awed by the magnificence of it. The sight of these buildings alone fill one with awe before even entering the building. Can you imagine how it feels like to visit the yet-to-be-completed Sagrada Família? How about seeing the intricate details of the Pietà up close? I would love to walk down those quaint little cobbler stone streets hidden away from the main city and just see how the locals live, to try the food available at the local eatery or to just gawk at the incredibly cute local boys there. To just be like a sponge and absorb all the culture, art and richness these cities have to offer. Not to mention to feed the inner shopaholic in me. Ah yes. The richness that these cities have to offer just makes one fall in love; either with the city itself or some incredibly cute local boys! Mmm.. I wonder if I’ll be able to visit them one day.

Oh! I forgot. I dont need a 5 star hotel when visiting! Some local affordable bed and breakfast will be good enough! Tucked away from the city, cute, quiet and safe. And I’d be contented with local food and red wine for dinner everyday! See? I am easy to please after all!

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